Esther 1:10-20      It's Hard To Be a Woman

Rev. David Holwick   ZA                                          Esther, #2

First Baptist Church

Ledgewood, New Jersey

September 8, 2013

Esther 1:10-20


IT'S HARD TO BE A WOMAN



  I. Miss America is back!

      A. The contest returns to the traditional venue, Atlantic City.

          1) It is tacky and sexist, but lots of people like it.

          2) It is not the world's first beauty contest, by far.

          3) The book of Esther contains one of the earliest ones.

              a) And it also raises some of those feminist questions.


      B. The role of women has changed over the years.

          1) The practices in Esther seem quaint to us, yet they lasted

                a very long time.

          2) The battle-of-the-sexes continues as always, but also

                still relevant is God's vision of a true woman.

          3) What Esther had to grapple with, all of us - both men and

                women - will probably face in our lives.


II. Vashti burns her bra.

      A. The Persians knew how to party.

          1) The details seem exaggerated - 180 days of festivities for

                the elite, then another 7 days of feasting for the

                   entire city.

          2) Historical sources tell us they were extravagant like this.

              a) Xerxes is the king who is the enemy of the Greeks

                    in the movie "300" about Leonidas and the battle

                       of Thermopylae.

              b) He knew how to throw his weight around.

          3) At the end of the banquet, Xerxes decides to show off

                Vashti, his trophy wife.

              a) Apparently, this good-looking woman was made of sterner

                    stuff.

              b) She refuses to come.

          4) You might call Vashti the original feminist.

              a) She wasn't going to let a man order her around for

                    frivolous reasons.

              b) She didn't actually burn her bra - it turns out that

                    didn't happen even in the 1968 Miss America contest,

                        where women threw undergarments in garbage cans.

              c) But her attitude of independence was just as radical.


      B. Vashti's defiance throws everyone in a panic.

          1) The bigger concern - other women will follow suit.      1:18

              a) Society will come apart as chaos overtakes families.

              b) Where would it all end?

          2) Many Christians share this concern today.

              a) In the Bible it is known as the principle of "headship,"

                    based on Ephesians 5:23.

              b) Men are supposed to be the leaders of their families -

                    not tyrants like Xerxes, but sacrificial leaders

                       like Jesus.

              c) How does your family handle this?

                  1> Plenty of Christian men settle for the Xerxes' model.

          3) Vashti is banished from the king's presence.


III. Man is not designed to be alone.

      A. This was God's motivation for creating Eve.

          1) Most men like to have a woman in their life and research

                has shown they are better off with female companionship.

          2) So the king's aides hurriedly propose a beauty contest.

              a) This way the king will get the best of the best.

              b) Hundreds of girls are given 12 months of beauty

                    treatments.                                      2:12

              c) As part of God's invisible hand, a young Jewish girl

                    is one of them.


      B. She made the best of a difficult situation.

          1) There are several parallels with Joseph and Daniel.

              a) All three found themselves in a foreign land.

              b) Each of them found favor with those put in charge of

                    them.                                             2:9

              c) All of them come out on top in the end.

          2) There are important differences as well.

              a) Esther hid her Jewishness (on the advice of her

                    foster father Mordecai) while Joseph and Daniel

                       presented themselves as Jews.                 2:10

              b) Esther ate everything the pagans put before her, while

                    Daniel refused their rich food.

              c) Joseph refused to have relations with Potiphar's wife,

                    while Esther was willing to marry a pagan king.


      C. Esther wins the contest.

          1) She is singled out not just to be in the harem, but to

                become the new queen.                                2:17

          2) She also maintains the status quo, and doesn't unnecessarily

                upset the king.


IV. The crisis.

      A. The nobleman Haman plots to destroy the Jews.

          1) Mordecai refuses to bow to him, so Haman plans a genocide.

          2) 25 centuries before Hitler, he tells Xerxes they are

                different and should be wiped out.                    3:9

              a) Haman even offers to pay for the whole thing.

              b) This "Final Solution" will kill every Jew on a single

                    day.                                             3:13

              c) Haman is so brazen he even publicizes it.


      B. Esther is positioned to do something - but doesn't.

          1) We want to see her as a feminine hero but she is more

                human than that.

          2) She seems more interested in protecting her favored position.

              a) When she hears of Mordecai's distress, she sends him

                    a CARE package instead of finding out why he is

                       upset.                                         4:4

                  1> She doesn't want him to stand out and draw attention

                        because of his sackcloth.

              b) Mordecai sends a message that she has to go to Xerxes

                    and plead for the Jews.                           4:8

                  1> She is sent a copy of the edict.

              c) What is Esther's response?

                  1> It is too dangerous to talk to the king.

                  2> If he has not invited you, he will probably kill

                        you.

                      A> The Greek historian Herodotus confirms this.

                  3> She adds an interesting detail in 4:11 - she hasn't

                        seen the king in a month.                    4:11

                      A> Apparently that harem is too enticing.

                      B> She fears she has lost her edge with the king,

                            and she doesn't want to jeopardize her

                               situation.


      C. Mordecai's challenge.                                       4:13

          1) You can't just think of yourself.

              a) You are still a Jew, and will be killed with everyone

                    else.

              b) If you are silent, another savior will arise.

              c) Perhaps you have put here for such a time as this.  4:14

          2) Esther gets her act together.

              a) She asks all the Jews to fast three days for her.

                  1> This probably implies praying to God for her.

              b) She will then go to the king and make the request.

                  1> "If I perish, I perish."                        4:16


  V. What God wants in a woman - or a man, for that matter.

      A. We live in perilous times.

          1) Society and its values are changing rapidly, all around us.

          2) The world yearns for something better, but often settles

                for something coarse and cheap.

              a) Consider the turmoil in Syria right now, with multiple

                    groups shooting and gassing each other.

              b) Everyone there wants a country that is peaceful and

                    more just.  Untold thousands will likely perish

                       before there is permanent change.

          3) Perhaps your crisis is closer to home.

              a) You don't care about Syria, you want to save your

                    marriage, or change your job.

              b) Inertia can make it difficult to do anything at all.


      B. You have what is necessary to deal with it.

          1) Not everyone has the power of a Xerxes or the natural

                beauty of an Esther.

          2) But you do have something that God can use to make a

                difference.

          3) You have been put where you are, for a reason.

              a) If your situation is tougher than what others are

                    facing, perhaps God has a special plan for you.

              b) You have to be faithful with the abilities you have.


      C. We have to choose to act with courage.

          1) Esther took her life in her hand, and approached the king.

          2) He listened to her, and granted her request.

              a) She didn't perish after all.

              b) But our survival is not the ultimate measure -

                    faithfulness to God is.

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